
Even before Joseph and I became a couple, he has been very vocal of his interest of having a relationship with me that is leading to marriage. This along with his kind nature, sweetness, sense of (corny) humor, honesty, values and good looks made me say yes to him. For 26 years, I had been waiting for someone to spend the rest of my life with. I did not get into any relationship before because I wanted my first boyfriend to be my last. And Joseph is making that dream, along with my other dreams, come true.
Although we have been together for only a few months, my Honey has laid out his plans of marrying with me. And just last month, I finally gave my sweet loving yes. This time I said yes because I love Joseph for all that he is and all that he will ever be.
At McDonald’s New Frontier Cinema branch, we were just dining like the usual breaks that we do every single night. It was already normal for me to hear him say of his dreams of marrying me and us having a family of our own. I have heard him so many times saying these wonderful words but I kept on saying no to him. I told him that I will only say yes to him if I am ready to marry him the very next day. And that very night, when he was not expecting it I finally gave my yes. And yeah, there was no ring that night.
Over the next few days, we told our families and friends about the engagement. Everyone is excited for our future and they had their own guesses as to when the big day would be. None won. LOL.
We planned to get our own place. Got an agent and prepared our documents for acquiring a condo. We are on our first steps in becoming a husband and wife.
Still, I didn’t have my engagement ring. Joseph has promised to give me one and he when he does, he will make that moment a special one. He kept his word.
March 29th, Sunday.
I was still upset from the other night and Joseph told me not to leave my house that day. At 1130am he picked me up and told my mother that we will go to church. Secretly, I was hoping that he will finally give the long awaited ring at the Nuestra Senora de Gracia, my most favorite church. But my hopes died down when Joseph decided to hear mass at Santuario de San Antonio instead.
Santuario de San Antonio is located in Forbes Park. This church is special for both of us. This is the very church where we first prayed together as a couple. The very church where he pledged his love for me in front of God. And today, he’s doing it again.
After mass, he asked me to stay with him inside the church. At the same area where we first prayed together, he made the sweetest most memorable proposal ever. I was crying when he told me he loves me very much and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.
Then, he took a box from his pocket and I saw two rings. What?? Dalawa??! One is with a crowned stone on top while the other ring is with seven small stones. The jewelers have terms for such. I forgot what they are. LOL. My Honey is so unique and funny at the same time.
He said that there are two so that just in case I get tired of wearing one of them, I can wear the other.
He finally gave the most powerful question of all time, “Honey will you marry me?”
With tears in my eyes, I said yes.
In January 2011, in front of God, family and friends we will take our vows. God makes the best love stories. And the story is not yet over.






